Many years ago when I worked in soul-destroying jobs, I constantly asked myself: “Why am I here, is this all there is to life, surely there must be something better than conversations about the coffee machine and the printer not working?” Have you ever found yourself staring out the window at work, daydreaming of sunny beaches or quiet mountain retreats somewhere far far away, then you know it’s time to find your true purpose and meaning in life.
Learn to listen to that inner feeling, your soul is trying to tell you that it’s time to start a new journey and follow your intuition.
Why We Get Stuck in Unfulfilling Careers
The reality why most people stay in dead-end jobs is simply because it pays the bills even though there is no personal fulfilment. I know because I’ve been there. I stayed in corporate roles much longer than I wanted to while completing my degree to transition to my new career.
If you want a different future, you must consciously choose to change your path. These changes don’t happen overnight, start making plans as soon as possible, it might be small intentional changes:
- Learning new skills for your new career
- Enrolling on a course that excites you
- Focus your energy on what brings you joy
Continue moving forward one step at a time and build the confidence until you are ready to take that leap of faith.
3 Steps to Discover Your Life Purpose and Meaning
Most people are not aware of their purpose and we are not taught at school how to discover our purpose and meaning in life. However, some children know from a young age what that purpose is and they are fortunate to be given the opportunities to develop their talents. Unfortunately not everyone has the same opportunities due to differences in education and environment in childhood. We are all born with wonderful gifts and some people discover their purpose and talent later in life.
Remember: It is never too late to develop your gifts. You are here to contribute something special to this world. Here’s how to start identifying your true path:
1. Learn to tune into your energy and vibration
When I was building my new career, I focused on how I felt when I was helping family and friends overcome challenges in their life. I realised that the most beautiful memories were created when I was giving advice to friends and family or helping them with a difficult situation. I noticed that my energy and vibration lifted whenever I was writing, coaching or teaching. I like to empower and inspire people to live their dreams. It’s important to focus on what makes you happy. If an activity makes you lose track of time, it’s a massive sign of alignment.
2. Focus on impact instead of income
Ask yourself this question: Would you work for free if you were able to do what you love every day? When I am writing, teaching or coaching I don’t think of time as I’m doing what I love. There are no limits as I’m living my purpose to fulfil my mission in life. Focus on what you can give and not on how much money you can make. If you are doing what you love and following your true path then the rewards and success will follow.
3. Identify what drains your energy
Your internal guidance system is very smart and works both ways. If you start thinking about a job or situation and you notice your energy and enthusiasm drops then most likely that path is not in alignment with your true self. Follow your inner guidance and spend your time and energy on things that make you happy. When you are clear on your purpose, it will become easier to reach your goals. When we are working in alignment with that purpose, the path becomes easier as everything starts falling into place. Trust that heavy feeling, it’s the signal guiding you on your true path.
Learn to trust the Universe
When you step into alignment with your life purpose, there is more synchronicity and like magic the universe brings people and situations to help you achieve your goals. You will know when the changes start happening.
However, I know from experience that if you ignore the gentle signs for change, the universe will sometimes create a louder more painful shift to make you listen and wake up. If your life feels like its falling apart right now, don’t panic. You’re probably experiencing a spiritual cleansing to make space for your true calling.
Know that the universe loves you and is moving you in the direction of your authentic self. Learn to trust the process, let go of everything that no longer serves your mind, body & spirit and allow yourself to be led through the changes to step boldly onto your new journey that aligns with your purpose and who you truly are.